I have a pan friend who is the only trans ally I know irl. Few months ago I decided to come out to her. However, I don’t know where to start.
I was alone with her several times recently, but I just fail to start a conversation every time.
She doesn’t seem to have any problem with being out to everyone, so it’s harder to have a serious conversation about my struggles. What should I do?


Just tell her you’re transitioning. She’s queer, she’ll get it. I told all my queer friends as soon as I started hormones and I’ll give all the gory details of my gender and sexuality to any adult who’s curious. You got this.