I have a pan friend who is the only trans ally I know irl. Few months ago I decided to come out to her. However, I don’t know where to start.
I was alone with her several times recently, but I just fail to start a conversation every time.
She doesn’t seem to have any problem with being out to everyone, so it’s harder to have a serious conversation about my struggles. What should I do?
Just tell her. Don’t overthink it. You don’t need to weave it gracefully into conversation. You don’t need to find the right moment. Since she’s out now, there was a point when she wasn’t. She’ll understand. You got this girl!