• LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    You are the entity that observes: Your thoughts, your feelings, your mental health and diagnosis’, your physical body, sensations, touch and the world.

    Blew my mind to realise I am not my thoughts, I’m the entity that observes my thoughts. Because I feel like my thoughts. Yk. But I’m not!!

    • quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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      23 hours ago

      This is what I learned in cognitive behavioral therapy.

      For those who cannot afford therapy right now:

      Thoughts shape our emotions, and in turn, our emotions drive our behavior.

      Therefore, to combat problematic behavior, one must:

      1. Identify the facts of the problematic behavior; then,
      2. Identify the emotions driving our behavior; then,
      3. Analyze and challenge the thoughts behind the emotions.

      We do this because many of the thoughts driving our emotions are not accurate and have to be challenged. These false thoughts are known as cognitive distortions.

      Worksheet.

    • zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
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      2 days ago

      The way I heard it described is that your brain, just like any other organ, has a function, and that is to produce thoughts. Just like you can’t stop your heart or quit breathing, you can’t stop your brain from thinking. Just like you can do things to speed up or slow down your heartbeat, or breathe more or less air, you can do things that influence your thoughts. But you can’t shut it off entirely.