That’s the post. I had only dated bisexual men before and it was kinda nice to know that a person that really only finds women attractive finds me attractive. Chime in if you want to share similar moments.

  • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    12 hours ago

    and did not ask or talk about me being trans at all.

    it’s not my business, but does he know you’re trans? If you’re just going on the assumption that “everyone can tell”, just know that sometimes people indeed do not realize (even if you think it’s blindingly obvious), and unless you have explicitly disclosed your trans status, he may not be aware.

    (Not to add stress or anything - so glad you had a lovely date, you go girl!)

    • theresa (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      8 hours ago

      Yeah he knows, it’s in my profile and I’ve offhandedly mentioned it once or twice. He just doesn’t care which is great for a change. I think it’d make me nervous and uncomfortable to not disclose that beforehand.