

CW: metalinguistic usage of slurs. Also, bear in mind I’m not black, I’m just some random nobody.
Unless you’re using a slur metalinguistically¹, or quoting someone who used it², you probably won’t be able to erase its negative associations; they’re there by default, you’d need to actively erase/contradict them.
And that’s not what you did. In fact, your comment only works because of that negative connotation; note how silly it would sound like, if you said instead something like “Granted. Your username is now /u/bananapotato”, or “/u/ninjapiratezombierobot”, or whatever.
It would be different, for example, if you were using the word ⟨nigger⟩³ as African-American Vernacular English speakers do; because then the meaning being conveyed is not “a black person, implied to be inferior to other people”; it’s more like “mate, bro, chap”, specially in a positive context.
Same deal with the words ⟨fag⟩ — I don’t think it should be treated as a slur if you’re clearly referring to a cigarette.
So. While I typically criticise Reddit moderation (from mods and admins) as insane, and coming from people and systems with the reading comprehension of a green potato, in this specific case, I think they acted correctly.
Just my two cents.
- Language being used to talk about language; e.g. if I say “the word «orange» replaced «yellowred»”, I’m using the word “orange” metalinguistically.
- Even then it gets tricky, as you need to ensure your quoting doesn’t endorse what the negative connotations in the quote.
- This is an example of metalinguistic usage. I’m talking about the word.






IMO:
Easier said than done, I know.