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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I get it. I used to beat myself up for it. Still do sometimes. But I have to remind myself that if they aren’t reaching out either, they may feel the same. We both care about each other and if one or the other of us called we’d help in a heart beat or have a lengthy enjoyable conversation. But we also have lives to go about. And if they aren’t involved in the day to day it takes concerted effort to reach out.

    When I feel really bad is when I don’t send a Xmas card but get one from them. Lol



  • Right, like they all have a point to a degree but really just need a little more info and put bias aside to focus on what each system does well and just connect the dots to the most appropriate to their use case.

    But then that requires social interaction, and having enough emotional maturity for putting aside personal biases. Two things on a relatively short list of things Linux doesn’t usually do well at.