I don’t like sex, I don’t have a sex drive. At the same time, I don’t feel repulsed by it either. So I’d be willing to have a schedule so that my hypothetical partner has his needs met.

  • nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    3 hours ago

    There’s nothing wrong with scheduled sex and many couples find it useful. I think the bigger issue for me would be that this is essentially “duty sex” though. I don’t think i could be in a relationship with duty sex alone. That’d fuck with my head too much over doing something that i know my SO doesn’t enjoy, plus duty sex is just not fun for me.

    Ps. There’s some ace communities around (asexual @lemmy.world and lemmy.blahaj.zone come to mind). Welcome to lemmy!

    • Rikudou_Sage@lemmings.world
      4·
      1 hour ago

      IMO there’s a huge difference between “doesn’t enjoy” and “being indifferent”.

      Like, me and my partner watch some movies that they’re definitely not enjoying, but they still watch them because we’re together and they don’t not enjoy them.

      Point is, you can do things together if you accept the other side is not into it as much as you are.