• thorhop@sopuli.xyz
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    Let’s talk about the Overton window.

    At some point in time, the major social platforms will fuck up - probably by way of AI - and end up in a collective scandal that gives people a bad taste in their mouthes.

    At that point y’all better have your talking points, framing, concepts and schpiel at the ready, because it’ll be another chance to adopt even more users. So let me stress a couple of things:

    You win more bees with honey, you should be more concerned about peoples wellbeing than your own opinion and start collecting valuable, objective and giving accounts - be they international, but most preferably local - across the fediverse to share with new users.

    AGAIN!! You being a toxic little shit will repell people. If you REALLY CARE about GETTING PEOPLE OFF OF PREDATORY CORPORATE PLATFORMS plz be mindful, kind, shower, groom, keep your inside humor to your inside group, learn some rhetoric to improve your communication skills and remember:

    👏 you 👏 win 👏 more 👏 bees 👏 with 👏 honey

    Being on your A-game does not mean Asshole-game. Plz do not stink up the place.

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    Probably because >50% of the posts on here are about depressing American politics

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      only because you keep joining them, i blocked out the main politics instances/communities, and there was significantly less of those annoying ragebait posts that you cant seem to think if its a tankie posts, or astroturfed pro-israeli post. even on reddit i avoided most of them, because i been burned one too many times by those subs for pointing out ragebaiting, or bigotry.

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    Should aggregate number of Lemmy and Piefed users (and maybe Mbin, NodeBB too), and see if the graph looks very different then

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    [Pretending Fedidb/Fediobserver data or account #s accurately represents valuable conversations between real people when I just blocked 6 accounts by the same guy in the last 15 minutes for fun voice] Considering everyone is making a constant attempt to drive others away and be a pedantic freak, should this surprise anyone? The people who came here because they want more reddit, or to be admins of a subreddit, are not very good people, folks, they’re not sending their best

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      Well, this is really going to tank our quarterly report. What do you think the shareholders are going to say?!

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      Yeah. And we don’t need to attract the MOST people, just the BEST people

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        I might be in the minority but I’m entirely comfortable with moderate explosive growth, it hasn’t hurt bluesky one bit. Especially since explosive growth here implies reddit is dying.

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          Personally I’d prefer to avoid reddit-ification, it had become very bad in the last few years

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            i do agree with the sentiment, but i think we’re largely okay on that front:

            among the big problems with reddit for the past, say, 10-ish years, was the consolidation of subreddit moderation in relatively few, extremely influential mods. some of which where widely known to be assholes of one kind or another…

            the very design of lemmy provides a kind of natural resistance to this phenomenon by spreading communities over many distinct servers, with distinct admins and moderation teams.

            it’s by no means perfect, but the simple fact that communities can choose to leave servers that have become unsuitable to hosting them (like we’ve already seen with some of the star trek comms leaving .world…i think that’s the server they left?), it becomes more difficult for power tripping admins or mods to utterly ruin communities. it still causes major disruptions, of course, but i think it’s a decent trade-off!

            having already seen that part of the design in action; I’m really not that worried about lemmy turning into reddit.

            what’s much more concerning is eventually being overrun by sophisticated, hostile discourse manipulators like bot and troll farms. (if we ever get big enough to attract those…)

            while decentralization provides resilience against enemies within, I’m not so sure it does the same for enemies without: coordinating bot defense and using proper authentication for end-users to ensure that the people talking are actually, you know, people, is probably going to be extremely challenging… eventually, at least…

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      The fediverse has been feeling really good lately. It’s actually getting hard to scroll to the end of the frontpage.

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      This doesn’t seem to be hoping for unlimited growth but rather that is has stagnated and is even falling. That can kill a community especially when it is as small as it is

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        probably went back the mainstream ones like reddit, and the others, assuming you wernt banned in any of those platforms permananetly.

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        I agree except it feels like people are way more active here than on reddit, me personally I never commented but I comment all the time on here. Lemmy feels really active even without a ton of users (especially discussion threads)

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          its probably due to self-censorship because subs, and reddit is ready to ban you at the moments notice for saying something they think its violating the rules(misconstruing) and not do actually violating by being vitrolitic, or bigotic. you have to be careful what you say on reddit.

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          That said, it is unfortunate that this only applies to very general spaces or some specific communities. If your interest is even a little too niche, the dedicated communities often feel like a graveyard unfortunately.

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        Anecdotally, it doesn’t feel like the experience is contracting, or part of a shrinking community. It’s worth asking what the data means, and whether it’s bad, but there are definitely other reasonable factors too. Users from interoperable platforms like mastodon and piefed, individual people using fewer accounts, or even fewer lurkers, could be responsible for a good chunk of the data.

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        Nah its basically stable. Green is monthly which fluctuates with seasons (more people in northern hemisphere and spend more time online in winter months). The blue line is yearly rolling average and the initial spike takes a long time to work though giving impression of gradual decline.

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        16 hours ago

        People have started using Piefed insted of Lemmy, but I’m not sure we should throw away hope for the fediverse because of that.

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          6 hours ago

          PieFed and Mbin are both different implementations of the ActivityPub Protocol just like Lemmy. Although I doubt this graph includes either of them, despite how many left Lemmy for Piefed when Lemm.ee went down.

          I looked and PieFed adds another ~1600 monthly active users and Mbin a further ~700 to the mix. PieFed starts out its chart with single digit user counts and ends with three orders of magnitude growth, so definitely not flat at all, though stable over the last few months.

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          Poefed is part of the Fediverse so surely it’s still a good thing overall?

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          11 hours ago

          It’s all or nothing baby! Let’s burn it down if something isn’t perfect from day one.

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        People will come in waves, some will share the same mindset and others will seek out more dopamine centric engagement.

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    Everyone who compares growth here (here being very relative considering how it works) vs. the idealized Reddit is forgetting something. Age. You don’t get peak Reddit by looking at its first years, and yet you’re looking at the literal first years for Lemmy and company and saying it’s not comparable. No, it’s not.

    Doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be constant discussion on improving and growing communities for better discussion, but the whole “oh no, the numbers are low” is ridiculous. Aside from being a aggregated discussion format, this is like comparing apples and cars. Reddit shouldn’t be a goal or benchmark, discussion flow here should be. I’ll be more worried about stagnation when feed numbers for myself drop back to the first few months, where there was concern about if federation would even work well. (and improving federation/defederation is also a great topic to talk about, it isn’t perfect, but it’s far better than it was)

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      Reddit used fake accounts from the beginning.

      If we want a real space it’s going to feel “dead” compared to that anyways.

      So yea, I agree.

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    It is what it is. I have no idea how to incite a new wave short of Reddit shitting itself in some way

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      I think what we can try to do is to create an active community.

      In the old place, I recognized I really came for the comments. That’s why I try to keep my threshold for commenting low and comment often.

      Even if it’s just to thank someone for a good comment or other low effort commenting, I like to think it helps.

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          I’m not a programmer so I can’t speak to how hard this is, but I think it would be a big asset to building user base if there was a neutral sign up website that wasn’t a specific instance. It would basically choose an instance for you automatically and skip that part. I figure there could be some list of general purpose instances compiled that are all fair game and the site would try to spread the load across instances.

          Average user doesn’t care about federation, and all of that complexity is a big turn off. I know because I almost didn’t sign up myself because of that. Having to pick a team just to get in the door feels kinda bad.

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            You have a point but maybe the gatekeeping is a good thing?

            Average user doesn’t care about federation would translate to the average user doesn’t care about this community. Maybe?

            It’s like how some old forums would charge for an account. Kept a certain low effort person from signing up. Sure it might turn people off but if you do enough work to understand how to get in then there’s a level of buying into it that might make you care more.

            Just some thoughts.

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            I was in the same boat as you regarding signing up. I also agree with you that the concept of federation might be confusing for new users. Just gave up at the promt to explore other instances (in lemmy.world sign up) and signed up to lemmy.world.

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              I ended up where I did because I wanted the closest thing to no instance possible, and the great folks running this one try to do just that. It’s fediverse Switzerland lol

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              Having to explain federation is kind of the issue in my opinion. This idea wouldn’t be to remove the normal sign up process, it would be a way to side step it entirely for those who don’t care about the technology aspect of it and just want to be part of the community.

              If you want to pick your own instance or suggest one, that would still exist. This would just be an alternative. It would also help to avoid everyone gravitating towards the largest instance, because it would try to load balance people automatically.

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                Having to explain federation is kind of the issue in my opinion.

                I don’t, nowadays, I just point to piefed.zip

                This would just be an alternative

                The issue is that there aren’t really instances that are similar enough to be considered interchangeable. They all have their specificity, be it admin style, defederation, downvotes enabled or disabled, front-ends available, etc.

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                  Yeah that’s a good point. Maybe it’s too different for it to work. I maintain that complexity will continue to push people away, though. If instances are that different we might have better luck referring to them as their own sites. That would just increase the flocking to single mega instances though. The most important feature of any social media site is who’s on it.

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        Ugh that’s a really good point. I need to work on more ‘whatever’ throw away comments

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        Thank you for your service. I agree with you on the issue, but am a bit afraid that if more people onboard here, the threads will be just the same reddit hivemind circlejerk like ”i also choose this guys wife” etc. But since there is no karma to gain here I wish it will stay like this.

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          Yep. I agree with this. Re-creating Reddit at the same scale just brings all the same problems. I like that federation means smaller more localised communities that can be connected (or not). I get that it’s not what everyone wants or is used to, and that’s okay.

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            The rules of the game are different so Lemmy wouldn’t be like Reddit even with the same scale.

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    You can’t ignore PieFed at this point anymore. I think the statistic is skewed without it.

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    Based on what I’ve seen, much of this could be from instances with redundant accounts shutting down.

    In other words, a lot of folks can’t sustain the burden of hosting an instance long term. That’s fine, and expected.

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      ee lacked admins, and some funding? that was the only problem. or some of the others they got burned out trying to do it themselves.

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      Redundant accounts wouldn’t count as active accounts, so if an account was dormant for a year prior to lemm.ee shutting down, it wouldn’t register as an “active user” on a monthly check just because lemm.ee was still active.

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      Especially since drama is more personal with the volunteering and donating.